Reckoning
Naming the Performance
What have we been required to perform, and what has it cost?
The moment(s) of discomfort, dissonance, or injustice
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Performance of Civility: Exiting Stage Left (Video)
Watch The Performance of Civility: Exiting Stage Left — a provocative exploration of how “niceness” has been weaponized in organizations and what it takes to build cultures grounded in truth, trust, and transformation. In this hour-long presentation, I share research and findings in partial fulfillment of requirements for my degree at USC: Master of Science in Applied Psychology (Industrial & Organizational and Consumer Psychology treatise): The Performance of Civility: Exiting Stage Left.
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Performance of Civility — self-paced course
Self-paced Reckoning course — name the performance of civility and practice exiting stage left.
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Orientation for Reckoning
You may be feeling
- Anger that finally feels like information, not a character flaw.
- Exhaustion from performing calm, competence, or gratitude in rooms that do not hold you.
- The dissonance of knowing something is wrong while being asked to stay polite about it.
You may be asking
- What have I been required to perform — and what has it cost?
- Where did I learn the mask, and who does it protect?
- What becomes possible if I name the performance out loud?

